Ummm, you called me names and questioned my parenting skills among many other things, so yes mean spirited. Not to mention it seems I should have no opinions on what I would like to see down town. I'm sorry if me having an opinion bothers you. Actually I'm not, its your problem not mine. Also I never asked for him to upgrade his bathrooms, just for some cleanliness and for a hand dryer or paper towels to dry your hands on. If you have not been there, you don't have a clue. He mentioned the grill, I expressed my OPINION that he follow through with that. Please, an occasional beer? Yeah right! May I ask what I did to attract your attacks? It seems you sit back and whenever I say something you jump in to try and discredit me and put me down? I came into this discussion expecting an adult conversation and instead get the condensing. Ones from you. If you had not said you were older I would think you were a smart elec know it all kid. You sound like you think your opinion is the only one and everyone else is wrong.