Well some of us can't stay home all day with our children and we still get the thank you mom and the I love you mom. Wouldn't we all love to be able to stay home, but that is not going to happen.
I don't think Aloha is putting herself on anything, I think she stated her opinion and must have struck a nerve. Good for her.
As I have said before go sit a day at the schools or in the classrooms and you will be surprised at the lack of respect from some students(not all) which makes it very hard to teach them. That form of learning should have started at home.