Okay one more just for J. J goes to work. His boss says, "Jeremy, tonight we aren't putting the Jack sauce on the burger." J says, Wait a minute it's my choice to do so." The manager says, do it my way or you're fired for insubordinate behavior. It's all about following the orders of those who pay you.
Maybe I'm one of the lucky ones, but I'm not scared to tell my boss to "****off, I'm not doing that" If he insists, I just won't do it anyway. It's never been a problem. Normally, because I was probed correct in the end. (Or because I'm just that goos at what it do?) I'm even training a guy, I can throw in the extra ballzy move, 'and he aint doing it either'