okay since everyone wants to know and put their nose in it.. My son doesn't want to go over there he asks mom can't we play at the park or something. We have stopped by several times and if Dream is not home he tells my son it isn't a good time because she isn't home come back when she gets here. Hello he is 10 he picks up on this stuff. He doesn't want to be around him just the kids. The last couple times you have texted we haven't been home. There has been times my son has called and if she isn't home he is told he can't come over or he won't answer the phone and she calls me back and says sorry I(dream) wasn't home. So tell me why would my son want to be around him(dreams husband). Dream as asked me in the past (while we was getting along) if we got married would he want to adopt the kids tell me how is that suppose to make me feel. Lets face it dream you and the kids want something to do with him and you know what if you guys want to meet at the park(holly family play ground) where ever I would try to do that but I won't make my son go over there. I think his last draw was when you two had it out and your husband said not today she isn't here and it's not a good time. I tried to explain what had happened (with out saying what happened)and when you said you moved out he said what where do I have to go now to see them because I am not going back over there. So why is it your kids are younger then mine and have opinions and feeling of their own but when mine does you don't believe it. So all of you who thinks I am the bad guy can kiss off. Do I think dream might have good intentions wanting the kids to see him and play with him yes I do but don't act like it is all me lets face it dream if it wasn't for you he would have nothing to do with the 3 kids that aren't yours you pushed him into the whole getting him to know them. Now please stop with it all I have nothing else to say to any of you I am going to go enjoy my children and our crazy schedule have a nice life