She will withdraw thousands of dollars in one transaction and then deposit small amounts of money over many days. It make no sense what she is doing. Something criminal or something to confuse or distract?

Larger deposits to bank accounts over a certain amount get automatically reported to the federal government, she's making a bunch of small deposits to avoid that.

It would have been cheaper if your husband had come home after the rehab facility and you were renting a hospital bed and other equipment through a local medical supply store and had a home health care aid come in for 'x' numbers of hours a week.

I have across the street neighbors, a family taking care of homebound grandparents at home and you'll see visiting nurses, nurses aids, and occasionally some durable medical equipment person stop by to visit.

I had been my mother's main caregiver in her later years. When her health went seriously south and she became housebound we had visiting nurses, in-patient physical therapy and an aid who came to help with bathing through an agency associated with our university medical center.

The first time she was in in-patient physical therapy at a skilled nursing facility it was their social worker who bought her a wheelchair and a commode that were 100% covered by Medicare. When she eventually needed a hospital bed at home we rented one through a local medical supply store.