Re: Single mom needs advice about AA school Archived Message
Posted by Dave J. on November 1, 2008, 12:20 pm, in reply to "Single mom needs advice about AA school"
Hate to be a kill joy but WHY does the child have to come with you and not stay with your husband? He will be doing his regular job with no strain having to learn a new one. He will not be moving and trying to set up a new home, trying to learn a new profession and having to study all the time. He will have no change in his life style other than having to take care of the child. The child will be more comfortable in his home also. You could get the child into a day care now so he becomes accustomed to it so when he has to go there more after you leave it will not be a shock. Do you really want to uproot your child AND take him away from his father AND throw him into a strange daycare far away for long hours while you go to school? IMO your husband needs to support you on this and he should be the one taking care of the kid while you go to school and learn anesthesia. (I did it for the entire first year of my child's life as my wife worked at a classified location in Nevada and was gone for weeks at a time. I was a single dad and it did not kill me. Rethink your plan.
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