Some people are like that online but not in person. I am... a bit of an oversharer all round. I tell people when I need a poo. I tell people if I had a funny dream about them. I think out loud. Yeah, I don't have a good filter.
(That said, I DO have a good filter for mean/upsetting/insulting things. I also don't swear etc. I'm not a potty mouth. But I am likely to blurt out my off-topic thoughts at random times).
It's been suuuper hard to have this thing that I don't/can't share. Honestly, it's not my personality.
I've had other 'secrets' before - such as my mental health difficulties, which I began to talk openly about a few years ago and it was like this HUGE relief to just be like you know what? It's ok to talk about this thing.
And... that's what's happened a bit with the spanko thing.
Noooo I don't mean I'm shouting it from the rooftops but... well, after a few reassuring and positive reactions to tentatively coming out to a couple people, I've gained confidence in it and said it more easily. If it's come up, y'know? Or something leads into/onto it.
Ok, forget me trying to be tactful. I admit I've basically just unpromptedly linked about 5 people I know to some Jillian Keenan videos and been like 'what she said. that's me'
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