Time is a Gift. I've known tiny children who had less than a full year, or even just minutes in their gift. I was always told they only needed a body and they were too perfect to stay here in this world. The older one is, might be the bigger gift, but as we all recognize, the golden years are often tarnished with rust, and breaks and pain.
Chin up Ladies. If you go tomorrow, you've shared your "gift' with friends and family. You've accomplished LIFE and you get to go through the door into the next classroom and see your loved ones! Look up!