Its hard...its very hard. And in the end, no matter how many kids you have, the final decisions are yours because they affect you. As a caregiver you at least had experience from a caregivers point of view. You dealt with homes and nursing care and levels of care. Except now, you are the one needing help.
Don't fret too much..it just makes it worse. Find out your options and with Gods help, you will come up with what will work for you.

Staying in your own home and having people come in to help sounds ideal except it is very costly as I think I mentioned before one place we picked charged $30/ hour. I could hardly afford the 80 hrs I had help in a month. And I can't even imagine paying for 24 HR care.