Life as we know it can change in an instant. Its hard but I try really hard to just go with it.
I've lost my independence, my house, my car and my cats. I now live in a studio apartment alone depending on others to help me. Financially, I've lost my social security check and monthly pension check..that all goes toward my new living arrangements. You can be miserable about the situation and moan and groan or you can accept what God has laid out for your new way of living. Going from a two story, 3 bedroom house to a room is quite an adjustment.
I know how you are feeling, Pattie. Going through it myself.