Try both the national hotline and tell them about your local organization not being willing to help even though they know she stole your savings l. Plus call the PA elder law number since that involves talking to lawyers on the phone for legal advice.

Also call your local Social Security office and report her for stealing the money from your bank accounts which includes your husband's SS checks money. Let them know she has access to the account and can keep stealing the SS checks when they get deposited. That's a federal law violation.