I’m devastated and don’t know what to do
Posted by JP
on May 8, 2024, 4:18 pm
My wife has just phoned me from the hospital. She’s been told she has breast cancer. We won’t find out the prognosis until next Thursday. I’m at home looking after the kids trying not to let on. She doesn’t want to tell them until we know all the facts. I’m absolute petrified for my wife and the future. Just wanted somewhere to let it out really. Prayers appreciate for those that partake. I will be strong for her but at the moment I just feel like bawling and I can’t because of the kids!
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Responses
- Hang in there, JP! Your family are in my thoughts! Keep us posted on her prognosis. Take care. nt - chicagoblue May 9, 2024, 8:35 pm
- Best wishes that she's got an early diagnosis. - Brentwood Blue May 9, 2024, 4:24 pm
- I work in radiotherapy and I’m sorry for you news - Wizard May 9, 2024, 2:40 pm
- Wishing you strength. The treatments are so,so good today. NT - Cardiff Blue May 9, 2024, 1:23 pm
- recently gone through similar with my dad's prostate diagnosis... - blades May 9, 2024, 10:49 am
- Best wishes and thoughts with you all. nt - BobD May 9, 2024, 10:26 am
- Somehow you've got to stay positive and I know that's easier said than done - deep blue May 9, 2024, 9:09 am
- Can only add to the support - Mullingar Blue May 9, 2024, 8:47 am
- Best wishes to you all. nt. - Johannes Borgen May 9, 2024, 8:42 am
- Hopefully, diagnosed early and she gets through this. Thoughts with you. nt - Irish Paul May 9, 2024, 8:13 am
- Re: I’m devastated and don’t know what to do - Bally May 9, 2024, 7:50 am
- Frightening stuff, best wishes to you all - you can definitely get through this nt - manimal May 9, 2024, 3:31 am
- Sending you, her and family the very best wishes JP. Please use this forum - Trev May 9, 2024, 2:17 am
- My mother got it five years ago in her mid eighties. She's still with us and active as ever - Paulo* May 9, 2024, 1:23 am
- Can’t really add anything that doesn’t sound - elcapitan May 9, 2024, 1:22 am
- You've got this JP..you have an army of Blues with you.. we can do anything! - Bostonian May 9, 2024, 12:49 am
- Stay strong fella, my thoughts are with you and your family. Nt - Ian C May 9, 2024, 12:17 am
- Thanks again guys. Seems so many have been through similar - JP May 8, 2024, 11:30 pm
- JP. Went through the same with my other half….comments in response - The Boss May 8, 2024, 11:10 pm
- Sorry to hear this. Stay strong, stay positive. Best wishes to you all nt. - Onlooker May 8, 2024, 10:51 pm
- Im so sorry to hear this news. I send you, your wife and family all my strength to get through(nt) - gHeadphone May 8, 2024, 10:31 pm
- Hoping and praying that next Thursday brings more positive news NT - WB May 8, 2024, 10:23 pm
- Devastating news, my heart goes out to you and your wife and family. - Biglabrador May 8, 2024, 10:20 pm
- Sending massive good wishes and supportive thoughts to you and your family JP (nt) - HansSegers May 8, 2024, 10:17 pm
- Wishing you and your family the very best - Midnight Dribbler May 8, 2024, 10:10 pm
- Good luck and best wishes mate - Ste Daley* May 8, 2024, 9:55 pm
- Important that you both stay positive, Very best wishes. nt - Floridablue May 8, 2024, 9:46 pm
- One step at a time. It can be beaten – I'm for years free after my diagnosis of prostate cancer. nt - Mr Resistor May 8, 2024, 9:31 pm
- All the best JP to you and family. nt - db May 8, 2024, 9:07 pm
- So sorry to hear this, thoughts and prayers are with you.Take it one day at a time Nt - aje May 8, 2024, 8:55 pm
- Re: I’m devastated and don’t know what to do - New Orleans Blue May 8, 2024, 8:53 pm
- Like you, I was hit hard by my wife's diagnosis. Three years later she's fine . . . - Cactus Jack May 8, 2024, 8:43 pm
- Very best to your wife and family, JP (nt) - Robin May 8, 2024, 8:22 pm
- Hi JP. Easy for me to say, but don't panic. As you probably know.. - Ed Canada May 8, 2024, 8:19 pm
- Thanks guys. I’m blown away. Genuinely bought tears to my eyes reading these - JP May 8, 2024, 8:17 pm
- Really sorry to hear you're going through this, JP. Wishing you all the best outcome. (nt) - 0--l--< May 8, 2024, 8:03 pm
- As someone who has been in the same position - Nicholas May 8, 2024, 7:57 pm
- Wishing you all the very best nt - PaulC May 8, 2024, 7:45 pm
- Take care of yourself and yours. As others have said, it’s amazing what is possible these days. nt. - Rainhill Runaway May 8, 2024, 7:43 pm
- Many have already said, but , it's amazing what they can treat now.... - Kev** May 8, 2024, 7:28 pm
- Sorry to hear this. Look after yourself and your family too. - Scotblue May 8, 2024, 7:03 pm
- You have to be positive. All the evidence points to this - LancsBlue May 8, 2024, 7:01 pm
- Thoughts are with you and everything crossed for a good prognosis - Ashblue May 8, 2024, 6:48 pm
- Good luck JP. If it means anything a prayer will be said for her and your family... - evercelt May 8, 2024, 6:39 pm
- Re: I’m devastated and don’t know what to do - gorm is ban* May 8, 2024, 6:30 pm
- Can’t offer any advice I’m afraid , but thoughts with you n/t - Beechside May 8, 2024, 6:30 pm
- All I can say - neilw* May 8, 2024, 6:22 pm
- Our thoughts are with youand your wife but as others have said - IMHO May 8, 2024, 6:02 pm
- Just gone through the same thing..now a year on everything's great. - Jonas May 8, 2024, 5:45 pm
- Oh Christ pal, I'm so sorry you are all going through this - Jonathan Gard May 8, 2024, 5:43 pm
- You, the Mrs and your kids will be in my family's prayers nt - Maximus May 8, 2024, 5:06 pm
- For what it’s worth, we have two very close friends that were diagnosed - Tricky Trev May 8, 2024, 5:02 pm
- Wishing you all the best. I know someone going through this at the moment… - Ov May 8, 2024, 5:01 pm
- Re: I’m devastated and don’t know what to do - Joemul May 8, 2024, 4:58 pm
- Terrible news but hang in there. Amazing what they do these days nt - Crosby Blue May 8, 2024, 4:58 pm
- It's difficult but - once the shock has settled a bit - try to stay as positive as you can... - PabloMc2 May 8, 2024, 4:47 pm
- Treatments have come on leaps and bounds... - Chris78 May 8, 2024, 4:46 pm
- All you can do just now is to be there for her and for the kids.... - T-t May 8, 2024, 4:41 pm
- Re: I’m devastated and don’t know what to do - MikeJ May 8, 2024, 4:40 pm
- I know 4 women in last year with same - all now sorted and just being reg checked NT - Still Feeling Blue May 8, 2024, 4:33 pm
- Just for now - Dr Baxter May 8, 2024, 4:30 pm
- Stay calm - DT May 8, 2024, 4:30 pm
- All understandable emotions. - Tony May 8, 2024, 4:30 pm
- fingers crossed for her nt - Col May 8, 2024, 4:28 pm
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