throw her on my cut diet of roto chicken and broccoli and carrots and drag her to the gym with me every day and could have those cankles worked off in 9-12 months. I pulled it off freshman year of college with one about her size and last time I checked Facebook before I got banned she was still skinny but was hitting the wall damned near as hard as the 3 car did when the 40 put him in the wall on February 18, 2001.

1 is broke looking for a meal ticket before the wall catches her. 3 is a non-starter. 4 probably divorce raped the second husband and has overspent and realized she needs to top up her portfolio.

2 is the obvious choice in this. The weight can come off easily with proper subtle shaming and a man who sets a good example. You wouldn't want to breed her, though, because statistically she is very likely to get up to the 250-275 range once she has the baby weight and baby as an excuse. I'd need to observe for a few years after weight loss and see her mother before firmly making the determination on breeding.