on June 21, 2025, 13:41:56, in reply to "Grandparents not allowed to be alone with grandchild (sad story)"
He’s got day camp Monday-Friday and Mon-Thursday the next 2 weeks though 10 mins from their house so it won’t be constant madness.
My parents live in FL but they will watch him for several hours so I can play a round of golf. They’re also going to watch him for 4 days in early August at our house before he starts Kindergarden.
Can’t imagine not being able to let his grandparents watch him for a few hours unsupervised.
Tonight we made rez for a steakhouse and paying with costco giftcards ‼️
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This kind of story gets repeated a lot, and I've seen it enough in advice columns. Sometimes the concerns are real, if the grandparents are out-of-it or reckless. Good friends of ours are wonderful people, with it, and were wonderful parents when their kids were around.
One of their offspring is married with a kid of about two years old. The parents will not allow the grandparents to be alone with the child unless one of them is also there. Well, it's the daughter-in-law, really. The son is in a tough spot. The grandparents are sad and hurt.
The parents now have newborn #2. Will things change?
My daughter and her husband were more like, "Sure, take her!" (Or them, when the second came along.)
What has been your own experience?
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