Is this subject the elephant in the room.
I have this problem too and for many years until the internet, thought I was unique and weird.
I could not understand why it happened.
Did it mean I wanted a short haircut or was it for fear of having a short cut.
It first happened to me when after having my ears covered for 12 years, the barber, after finishing the cut, snipped off the 3 inches covering the ears. I ejected a full load in what was a very embarrassing.event.
I next had it happen when 15 years later, the sides were cut with clippers for the first time. I controlled it as best I could by tensing myself , then covering the wet spot with my hand as I paid.
This happened each time the barber used clippers. Was it because I did not know how short they were cutting? I had to wear condoms.
To avoid this, I asked for scissor cuts, but the cuts were crap.
It was as if barbers had forgotten how to use scissors.
In the end, I surrendered to the clippers and asked for a no 4 on the sides., I closed my eyes and apart from a mild stiffness had no problem at all. I knew how short the cut was and had asked for it.
I have now progressed through 3 and now have 2 on the sides with the top cropped to about an inch and can even watch it being cut.
However, I still suffer great pre haircut anxiety and always leave as long as possible, 6 to 10 months or more, between cuts.
I feel that the problem will only go away if only I can brave a buzzcut and then keep it that way by trimming it every couple of weeks.
Thank you LevelledandFlat for raising the subject.
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