You can bet the kids in this house are saying "Yes, ma'am" and "No,sir" I was at a birthday party recently and this kid ran the entire household and the family openly talked about it. I had to get out of there before I spoke my mind. The kids here are spoiled materialy, for sure. It's a grandparent's right. But they aren't brats and I'd better never catch them disrespecting a teacher. They have chores, they are disciplined when they don't behave, but they are 2 of the happiest, sweetest little guys on the planet. SO, take heart. There are still some "old schoolers" out there.