because people can't keep secrets, even with their own affairs
because i thought i'd be doing you a favor. obviously it's what you want.
because you need serious help, per your own request, and this is the only way I know how.
because i'm not making wisecracks, OR threats.
because a marriage needs help, and you need to get out of the way, or face the husband like a man, and get your dick out of your a$$ and stop putting your problems out here on the web like a teenage girl.