This article was written by someone I know— she’s a very close friend of my brother’s and I’ve known her for over 30 years. She used to be a columnist for The NY Times but she decided she wanted to write longer pieces and recently moved to The Atlantic. Anyway, I think this article about a family and the son they lost on 9/11 is the wisest, most moving piece I can recall ever reading, and is my favorite thing she’s ever published. This is long, but I promise it is worth it: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2021/09/twenty-years-gone-911-bobby-mcilvaine/619490/