"But it's also super nice to have them know right?!"

Yes! Even though it feels a bit awkward and embarrassing, it just feels like a relief to talk openly about certain things. Like when a conversation topic makes me think of a kink thing in the last couple weeks now, I've often just said it!

I am someone who likes to be open anyway, and it always felt really difficult to keep this thing inside me. I don't want it to have to be a private thing.