I’ve always found the thought of munches scary, for some reason. I’ve often heard about them, but never really *considered joining*. I guess I’m kinda scared it would be a weirding out, uncomfortable experience.

I have also had conversations with (few) people who have a kinky side (more bdsmy), but, as you say, sometimes that means nothing. It’s like talking about your obsession with iced tea to a person who enjoys cups of steaming hot tea. The fact we both enjoy the tea means nothing...if anything it can be reason for more misunderstandings and discussions about the best way to have tea.

Sorry for my metaphor, but what I meant to say is...in my books you did more than one brave thing, and I commend you for it