My mother and I do not share the same views. One grandmother who I would guess probably would have shared my view, died when I was 13 years old. She was a Christian but lived in Tennessee so I really never spent a lot of time with her. My other grandmother lived in Florida - saw her twice and she was an alcoholic. My views are based on my Christian beliefs.
As far as a man having a say so on this topic - I think they should. Men become fathers and they love their children too. My question is why would any man allow a woman who is carrying his child to abort it without fighting for that baby's life.