Dirty laundry is right...good grief. Down right Jerry Springer like. You lay it all out there ladies and eventually someone is going to comment.
Great job on fueling this one Just Me! Now for my 2 cents, this statement of "its not a good time" not a good time, for...when your child wants to see you, visit you, spend time at your house? How could any parent look its child in the face knowing that child wants to be with you and reply..."its not a good time"?