Your right kids do pick up on things and the way you and your mother have bashed us, i'm sure he heard it to. Every time he tried talking to you about your son, subject turned into everything but him. When he tried talking to his son, while your around, you would talk for him.
He does want to be a part of his life. He is sitting right here telling me what to say. He feels uncomfortable around you, wondering what put downs you'll say to him next. That s why he didn't go to park when you and your friend was there that day. So just cause your not here when your son is, doesn't mean he isn't doing things with him. Yes , i have helped him with his homework, so has his father in subjects he knows. Your son is alot like his father, both stubborn and set in their own ways! I noticed your son feels more comfortable around woman than men, probably due to fact of past history. (not being mean) That's why he turns to me more than his dad.
Enough with back in forth who's wrong /right. Cause no one is perfect on both sides and yes he is wrong for not trying harder to see him cause tired of fighting with you about seeing him.
So let's say we start making play dates for kids to see eachother. His dad will be there to see him too. (No i'm not making him either) Let's play nice for kids, better yet if you feel better sitting at different benches thats fine by me. I just don't want to fight anymore!!!