To start with, it was punishment over an actual event. Whenever there's a bit of fact/truth involved, it tends add a little frisson to the playing. I'm not saying completely fabricated scenes/roleplay can't be scary and thrilling. They certainly can. But when someone is being spanked for something they actually did, there's an extra seasoning of guilt added to it. (Especially for someone like you, who has such a strong "responsibility chain" to be yanked on! )
The other thing that made ideal (from my POV as a top) is that the prank wasn't mean-spirited, and it didn't go too far. There's a fine line at times between playful and tiresome, and it's not always easy to discern.
Finally, your point about it not being a serious infraction was important too. It's one thing to hold someone accountable because you're in a top/bottom relationship, and part of the dynamic is it's meant to help them improve/evolve. For me that would definitely be a one-to-one interaction.
But when you're playing with a big group and/or multiple brats, it's most successful if it's kept "light," even if the discipline is administered seriously.
I have no doubt the pain was real and the feelings of fear or guilt were real. But with all of you being so in tune and understanding where all the boundaries were, it was possible to play with real emotions and real discipline over even a light-hearted prank. And that's the kind of scene which would (IMO) have the greatest success of giving everyone what they want.
Regarding your statement that you'd pictured a monogamous spanking relationship, I'll bet that's what most of us assume too. Just because of what we read and fantasize about. But I bet your way of playing ends up being really useful, because you'd get to figure out exactly what you want in a spanking partner, due to discovering all the things you don't care for as much!
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