Here's the latest update. Hb is deteriorating. He had an episode of not being able to use his legs. There was a hospital stay that found nothing and then a move to an even worse nursing home because Kathy went through all his money.

Her newest torture technique that she is using is to get to me is...get this...She is arranging "dates" between Hb and her Mother, Hb's
Ex. How's that for crazy?. She picks him up from his nursing home, puts him in her car and takes him to her Mothers house for a date. That's what she's doing now. I am terribly hurt by this. I am afraid they may be having him sign documents, or will have him divorce me to get my house or are doing other things to be cruel.

Kathy's Mother has a history of marrying men who are near death. She marries them saying she is helping them "birth into Spirit". They die shortly afterwards and I imagine she gets widow benefits or life insurance money or some monetary "reward". She has done this THREE times with sick men. She is a lesbian. Came out years ago. What's a lesbian want with these men? I have red flags going up. I fear my Hb is going to be husband number four. I am so sick of this craziness.

On the other hand, next week I have an appt. with an Elder Care attorney. I hope he will
revoke Kathy's power of attorney and do something to keep her from taking my house. I need a place to live. She's taken everything else. She can not get this house. He's supposed to be very good as an attorney. This will probably wipe me out financially but something must be done to get Kathy under control. Anyway, that's where we are now.