yeah...that's what the grndr said, "we're keeping it simple"
NOT...then you have 20 people coming from other states. You have to find hotels, caterers, flowers...etc, it adds up quick.

No worry about kids....he has 2, she has 1. Hers fulltime, his/ half time. They are 6,4 and 2.

These couples of course don't want to pay for all of it themselves. They'd trim the expenses way back if they did.