OK. Just got this....Kathy's knife in the back for today. Keep Hb in the dark about what she is doing. Got that from BIL after talking to her.

Don't need a crystal ball to see what's going to happen here. Hb is questioning what she is doing now. She doesn't want to tell him. She is going to say I am upsetting him by telling him what is going on. She wants to shut me up, so as medical POA she will say I am hindering his recovery and upsetting himand she will stop all communications between us. She will stop visits, phone calls, everything. I don't put this past her at all.

Damn, how can she over ride the rights of his spouse?