What's that? It's been a long time since I had control over mine. Pads help, but my pelvic wall must have totally given way. If I wait too long, or stand up, or sneeze, or laugh, or cough,well, you know. And trips to potty? It's a good night when I get to go three times without having to change. Hips are totally bad, so can't do the exercises to tighten the pelvic wall. Daytimes are a little better, I can time the trip and I have a fast rolling Jazzy to get there!