I am so happy for you. It is so hard to be estranged from our children. It hurts so much. Our son never contacts us, haven't seen him in over 30 years. We supposably did something that hurt his wife's feelings but we have no idea what, we asked but he isn't saying. It was always obvious she did not want to be a part of our lives, she is from a well to do family, we are every day people.