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It’s Trixie’s birthday today.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 3, 2026, 01:27:23

We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 26, 2026, 18:29:33, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

how's your son handling all this?*

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 28, 2026, 06:08:31, in reply to "And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin"

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Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

and i don't mind you using the term son. I am raising him like he is

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 28, 2026, 11:45:53, in reply to "how's your son handling all this?*"

but he's not. and that's a big difference in our relationship. So the word doesn't bother me but I just want you to understand the dynamic.

I don't call him son because he doesn't want me to. And he doesn't call me dad because he doesn't want to. If he was into it, i'd be all in. I just don't use the terms son/father out of respect for his wishes.

Early on he looked at us and said "i don't want to call you mom and dad." Sure we were a bit heartbroken but I said to him "it's ok kid, you call us whatever you want."

I think he took it just a bit too far though. Cause now he just calls me asshole.

You should apologize

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 28, 2026, 22:21:02, in reply to "and i don't mind you using the term son. I am raising him like he is"

For not loving my epic joke that always kills on stage.

Sorry, I should have called him by name*

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 28, 2026, 21:30:20, in reply to "and i don't mind you using the term son. I am raising him like he is"

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Don’t apologize. It’s not upsetting. I just wanted to tell you the situation.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 28, 2026, 22:20:16, in reply to "Sorry, I should have called him by name*"

We all have modern families these days

yeah, I come from a blended family at age 13*

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 29, 2026, 06:30:30, in reply to "Don’t apologize. It’s not upsetting. I just wanted to tell you the situation. "

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We all have modern families these days

he's 16 and his head is in the clouds.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 28, 2026, 11:43:05, in reply to "how's your son handling all this?*"

also there is a disconnect. He does care about us a lot. But we aren't mommy and daddy. So it's different. This isn't the woman that birthed him, nursed him and changed his diapers. And that's ok.

He's also just so into himself because he's that age and he's generally always been kind of oblivious.

great to hear!*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 27, 2026, 20:11:05, in reply to "And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin"

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Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

Good stuff. *

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 27, 2026, 17:05:03, in reply to "And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin"

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Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

Best of luck to both you and her. *

Posted by harb99 User icon on August 26, 2026, 21:31:47, in reply to "And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin"

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Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

"yeah but you live down where the hoot owls eff the chickens" - illinihiltopper

fantastic! Hopefully a speedy recovery *

Posted by Pooter User icon on August 26, 2026, 19:21:46, in reply to "And she's home and resting. Let the healing begin"

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Also, roundtrip from my house in the San Fernando Valley to La Jolla, pick up wife, get back home:

5 hours.

Epically fast.

Life is too short to waste boners

Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 25, 2026, 18:04:23, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

Looking good Ace!!

Posted by osklister User icon on August 26, 2026, 11:25:51, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"

Honey, I couldn't figure out how to use the washing machine...

...or the vaccuum...

...or the bucket and mop...

LOL. Hope things continue to improve. :-)

God bless you guys*

Posted by DouchieHowser User icon on August 26, 2026, 11:22:14, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

Good for you guys. Be well. *

Posted by haighter User icon on August 25, 2026, 21:31:08, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"
Boo Haighter

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

She’s been in the hospital all this time?!

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 25, 2026, 20:35:40, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"

Wow, I bet you both will be glad when she’s home

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

I'm sorry I didn't update you guys.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 25, 2026, 20:48:42, in reply to "She’s been in the hospital all this time?!"

So the surgery was successful. They removed far more clots than the could see in the scans. That's very good.

And everything was going pretty normal but then she had an infection so that had to battle that. And then she had a large amount of fluid accumulating around her heart. So they had to see if they could handle that with meds. The meds weren't working so they put a drain in the and had to let it drain for a few days. Then once drained they had to make sure it wasn't filling up again.

As of today they felt comfortable removing the drain. They think she's fine. They will do one more xray in the AM and they expect it to be clear. If so I pick her up. The xray is at 5 am and i was going to leave around 8 am after i get the kid out the door. So that should work.

With any luck, she'll be in her own bed tomorrow.

So that's nice.

What a long road

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 25, 2026, 20:50:56, in reply to "I'm sorry I didn't update you guys. "

Hopefully moving forward a much less eventful one. Take care.

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Thanks they said it could be 2-3 weeks if there were little post operation issues.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 25, 2026, 20:54:04, in reply to "What a long road "

so this doesn't always happen but it's not unusual.

Good to hear!*

Posted by Lexillini User icon on August 25, 2026, 20:25:28, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"
weiner sleeve

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

Guns. Have them.

The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants.

Socialism is the gospel of envy.

Awesome news. *

Posted by harb99 User icon on August 25, 2026, 18:51:27, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"
a CM calendar at work is A-OK

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

"yeah but you live down where the hoot owls eff the chickens" - illinihiltopper

Great news!*

Posted by OskeeWowWowDig User icon on August 25, 2026, 18:41:09, in reply to "Looks like i'm driving down to San Diego to pick her up tomorrow AM"

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not 100% but highly likely. It's about fucking time.

Live video of my wife right now

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 6, 2026, 16:12:40, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 6, 2026, 13:29:16, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Ha! Having had a breathing tube experience, I’m so happy for her that it’s out.

Posted by OskeeWowWowDig User icon on August 6, 2026, 19:39:46, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

Glad things are trending positively. Still sending prayers and strength and maybe a nap for you!

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Sorry, I had to chuckle at your great insight there :)

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 7, 2026, 06:45:15, in reply to "Ha! Having had a breathing tube experience, I’m so happy for her that it’s out."

I'm glad her breathing tube is out. For sure.

I didn’t go into detail, so I get it. But it was one of the worst moments of my life.

Posted by OskeeWowWowDig User icon on August 7, 2026, 12:16:08, in reply to "Sorry, I had to chuckle at your great insight there :)"

I kid you not. So my sentiment is heartfelt and sincere.

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I'm glad her breathing tube is out. For sure.

Reminds me of my two colonoscopies - sort of

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 7, 2026, 12:27:12, in reply to "I didn’t go into detail, so I get it. But it was one of the worst moments of my life."

At my age, I have heard many stories about complaints about the prep and the procedure. I have no complaints about mine, and sometimes would think when hearing whining: tell me when you’ve had something major, not this. Like Trixie’s and whatever happened with you.

Colonoscopies are a breeze. I’ve had several since my colon cancer diagnosis

Posted by OskeeWowWowDig User icon on August 7, 2026, 12:48:34, in reply to "Reminds me of my two colonoscopies - sort of"

On my first one. The breathing tube was when I had open heart surgery to repair my aortic aneurysm.

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Wait...this is positive no? I thought she had to be in a coma for a few days? *

Posted by haighter User icon on August 6, 2026, 18:45:44, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "
Boo Haighter

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

It was supposed to be Friday or Saturday. But she has no time for that.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 7, 2026, 04:18:16, in reply to "Wait...this is positive no? I thought she had to be in a coma for a few days? *"

The doctors thought her situation was good enough and took it out. The girl is a healer, what can I say?

Sometimes these days, it's natural to worry about insurance pushing you out

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 7, 2026, 06:46:25, in reply to "It was supposed to be Friday or Saturday. But she has no time for that. "

You're alive and breathing and conscious? Go home.

"These days..." hmm. Been hearing about "drive-thru deliveries" for quite a while.

Posted by osklister User icon on August 7, 2026, 08:48:12, in reply to "Sometimes these days, it's natural to worry about insurance pushing you out"

All the women of say, my mom's age where flabbergasted when their kids were in the maternity ward.

yep, pretty much*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 7, 2026, 07:53:33, in reply to "Sometimes these days, it's natural to worry about insurance pushing you out"

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You're alive and breathing and conscious? Go home.

Keep up the good work.

Posted by osklister User icon on August 6, 2026, 17:04:10, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

When she starts complaining (about something besides your face) you'll know she's ready to go home.

LOL. Things are starting to get back to normal. You and yours should feel good about that. :-) Let her see how happy you are!

I’m fucking exhausted*

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 6, 2026, 17:46:17, in reply to "Keep up the good work. "

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sounds positive, and lol*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 6, 2026, 16:02:31, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

lol *

Posted by Pooter User icon on August 6, 2026, 14:49:32, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Life is too short to waste boners

lol*

Posted by Rantucky User icon on August 6, 2026, 13:58:22, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Awesome :)*

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 6, 2026, 13:55:25, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Lulz…at least that seems like a good sign. *

Posted by harb99 User icon on August 6, 2026, 13:54:58, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "
a CM calendar at work is A-OK

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

"yeah but you live down where the hoot owls eff the chickens" - illinihiltopper

LOL. Good to hear.*

Posted by Lexillini User icon on August 6, 2026, 13:29:52, in reply to "Breathing tube is out and I’m in the icu with her. "
weiner sleeve

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Now wishing they would put it back in. Lol. She’s just yammering. So looped on drugs.

Guns. Have them.

The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants.

Socialism is the gospel of envy.

In ICU. Time to rest*

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 5, 2026, 20:55:15, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

good to hear, Ace. continued best wishes *

Posted by Pooter User icon on August 6, 2026, 08:08:25, in reply to "In ICU. Time to rest*"

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Life is too short to waste boners

Good deal. Hope all goes well with recovery. *

Posted by harb99 User icon on August 6, 2026, 07:31:11, in reply to "In ICU. Time to rest*"
a CM calendar at work is A-OK

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

"yeah but you live down where the hoot owls eff the chickens" - illinihiltopper

Main procedure is done and now some post op stuff

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 5, 2026, 16:48:18, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

Hopefully soon they will move her to the icu.

Good to hear. Ty for updating *

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 5, 2026, 18:11:02, in reply to "Main procedure is done and now some post op stuff "

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Hopefully soon they will move her to the icu.

thanks for the update*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 5, 2026, 17:50:48, in reply to "Main procedure is done and now some post op stuff "

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Hopefully soon they will move her to the icu.

In the middle of the procedure. Blot clots being removed.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 5, 2026, 12:55:34, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

She’s in stable condition and it seems to be going well

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. They mean a lot to us.

Good to hear!*

Posted by Lexillini User icon on August 5, 2026, 13:17:27, in reply to "In the middle of the procedure. Blot clots being removed. "
weiner sleeve

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She’s in stable condition and it seems to be going well

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. They mean a lot to us.

Guns. Have them.

The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants.

Socialism is the gospel of envy.

God bless*

Posted by Xar User icon on August 4, 2026, 23:55:45, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

“An animal may be cunning and ferocious enough, but it takes a real man to tell a lie.”

Update?*

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 4, 2026, 20:20:21, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Tomorrow is the big day. I’ll post an update later in the day.

Posted by AceFrehley User icon on August 4, 2026, 23:11:38, in reply to "Update?*"

Just found out that this requires a two to three day medically induced coma. Sigh.

Happy belated birthday and thoughts and prayers for a successful surgery and speedy recovery! *

Posted by GAIllini User icon on August 4, 2026, 09:17:01, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Best wishes to her.*

Posted by Stu Pedasso User icon on August 3, 2026, 17:35:23, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Time to go full blown Outlaw

All the best to the Trixster. She’s got this! Keep us posted *

Posted by kokomojo User icon on August 3, 2026, 15:48:39, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Good luck with everything and happy birthday to her. *

Posted by haighter User icon on August 3, 2026, 13:32:12, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "
Boo Haighter

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Best wishes/prayers to you and yours. *

Posted by osklister User icon on August 3, 2026, 13:03:47, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

Be a source of strength for someone else; and hopefully someone else will do the same for you.

Prayers sent.....best wishes to you both*

Posted by villain User icon on August 3, 2026, 12:45:11, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "
Stupidhead

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

probably just another real jerk in life

bests*

Posted by Playoff Rondo User icon on August 3, 2026, 12:01:02, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

F ATL

Happy Birthday!! and best wishes *

Posted by Pooter User icon on August 3, 2026, 11:20:56, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Life is too short to waste boners

Best of luck. *

Posted by harb99 User icon on August 3, 2026, 11:08:08, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "
a CM calendar at work is A-OK

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

"yeah but you live down where the hoot owls eff the chickens" - illinihiltopper

I will say a prayer, Ace*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 3, 2026, 08:36:26, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Reminds me of Aretha Franklin

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 3, 2026, 09:16:57, in reply to "I will say a prayer, Ace*"

Fantastic song and vocals. Like the piano, too.

legend*

Posted by Mismysteri User icon on August 5, 2026, 11:24:38, in reply to "Reminds me of Aretha Franklin"

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Fantastic song and vocals. Like the piano, too.

Well, just a little bit. :-)

Posted by osklister User icon on August 5, 2026, 14:00:02, in reply to "legend*"

FWLIW: "Say A Little Prayer" just may be the only Motown hit written by Burt Bacharach. :-O

You got it! Best wishes for a successful surgery and fast recovery:) *

Posted by Learning_and_Labor User icon on August 3, 2026, 08:03:38, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Good luck Trixie/Ace*

Posted by Figs User icon on August 3, 2026, 07:58:52, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

“the intensity of a conviction that a hypothesis is true has no bearing over whether it is true or not.” - Peter Medawar

Wow, good luck*

Posted by Potomac User icon on August 3, 2026, 06:05:02, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Thoughts and Prayers for Trixie and your family, Ace!*

Posted by WesMantooth User icon on August 3, 2026, 05:53:52, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Uneducated Redneck Piece of Shit

Wishing her the very best. A full and speedy recovery. God bless.*

Posted by Lexillini User icon on August 3, 2026, 04:45:04, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "
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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Guns. Have them.

The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants.

Socialism is the gospel of envy.

best wishes to Trixie*

Posted by Rantucky User icon on August 3, 2026, 04:04:27, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

Sending them all your way, Ace. Happy Birthday - and hopefully re-Birth day to her*

Posted by OskeeWowWowDig User icon on August 3, 2026, 02:38:58, in reply to "It’s Trixie’s birthday today. "

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We’re leaving for San Diego tomorrow as she is having a major surgery that will save her life. We are accepting all thoughts, prayers, good vibes and well wishes. Thank you.

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