on May 5, 2026, 14:52:09, in reply to "True or false, the pull on revolvers is generally harder than with semi-autos* "
You can always have trigger pull adjusted by a qualified gunsmith fairly easily.
MrsHarb has both styles. She likes her Sig 238 but also feels a little more comfortable with her 642 because she doesn’t have to worry about loading the chamber in a heated situation. Just pull, point and pull. And I wouldn’t want her shooting in my direction. She’s not comfortable leaving one in the chamber of the 238 full-time. 
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https://www.smith-wesson.com/products/revolvers?caliber=38+S%26W+SPECIAL
Or one of the other 442 or 642 models. Previous Message
Is this her first handgun? Does she have any shooting experience?
To simplify this, she wants something that is both reliable and effective in a self-defense role. Small enough to carry but large enough that the recoil isn't overwhelming. Firearms that are not comfortable and pleasant to fire tend to not get enough practice time at the range. And regular practice is key. You cannot just simply purchase a firearm and throw it in a drawer or purse and think it is going to help you when the shit hits the fan. You have to practice and train.
My first thoughts are a Smith and Wesson Bodyguard 2.0 in .380. .380 is a perfectly fine defensive round if you use good defensive ammunition. Don't be intimidated by all the different variants. They can admittedly be a little overwhelming. https://www.smith-wesson.com/products/bodyguard-2
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