you have thing mostly under control. I totally understand that immediate instinct to "tell John" only to remember that you can't.

I remember the first time someone said I am sorry for your loss when I was dealing with my Dad's stuff....I lost it. I was not expecting that and it caught me off guard. It did get somewhat easier each time it happened.

I just thought I might mention that I thought that there are either apps or online services that you can send a "fax". Or maybe those don't even exist anymore. Although I don't know how secure they would be, sorry. Library?

Hugs to you. One day at a time, and maybe just one step at a time.