3Dee, id rather be whatever that word you used for being too careful also. Most parents would probably rather have stupid kids than kids with health concerns if they had to choose between the two options. I have to admit, i feel bad for the kiddies because they are the ones who will have to pay the price for all these missed days. From what ive read, most of this seems to fall into the column of some really bad luck, but probably not all of it. I dont know enough to Monday morning quarterback this, but im pretty sure somebody will.