Thank you Chris for clarifying my intent. I should have been more clear.
I'll put it this way, if half the idiots who fight against same sex marriage put the same time and energy into feeding our hungry, tutoring our children, PROTECTING our children and older folks, among a dozen other worthy causes, and less time and energy fighting something that should be a given, that isn't their business, and has no effect on their lives, our world would be a much better place to live.