Now if she's rolling up to the grocery store in an Escalade, Iphone in hand, and a big rock on her finger yeah, I have a problem with that. A big problem.
As would I but we would be assuming something just as the manager did. If she rolled up in an Escalade her husband may have been able to afford it before losing his income. So is that abuse? If this manager (even in the lack of class way he did it) assumed or knew the food she was buying wasn't eligible was he to assume she had these medical issues or her husband was out of work?
We all have reacted on impulse before. God knows I have. I think that's what this guy did and wrong or not he made a human assumption about her being an abuser.