Oh, also GIT, I didn't mean that your kids were bigoted. You said, "To train them in the way you believe is right? Of course it is, those of us who take the time to train them attempt to train them in a way we believe is beneficial to them" - I know you meant that in a good way, but my point is that some parents' idea of what is right and beneficial is not necessarily good. I used an extreme example of White Supremist parents.