Yeah here's what I literally put haha... ok, so I started with some vanilla info that I won't repeat here. Then I added at the end:

"I like cuddling, playful tickling, OTK. Not as scary as it sounds, and I'm a bottom (could switch on occasion if wanted)"

And they messaged asking me what that was haha and then they were like... not scared off by that and we're still chatting and I'm still panciking.