Siiigh yes you're right, I should absolutely just ask that ('when are you comfortable to meet') but... uhhh. Ok, I barely realised this as I typed my original post or maybe didn't consciously realise this but... ok, so asking that feelings like asking for (you know what).

Why have I gone so bashful(? is that the right word) at THIS stage?

I hedged a bit about it in a chat today tbh. I was like, soooo have you been out much? Haha. *cries over being so pathetic*