Oh look, I ordered all your suggestions! i think I'll be able to take the beard- it's when there is only a moustache that I find it a bit off putting! One of the things I like about Jeremy is how his looks seem secondary- I really find him attractive because of how he expresses through himself, and then he starts to look good to me, and then I watch some more and he looks really good to me! It wasn't his looks that first struck me, though. It was his intelligence, his subtlety and his humour. And then he seemed irresistibly handsome!