I especially discuss how the fact we're 'into' it is something I consider not only not a barrier to it working, but actually necessary for it to 'work' for us.
The tl;dr essentially boils down to: it works because we're into it working, so we make it work [for us]. Basically somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy. But with more detail than this, of course 😅 . It's a longish read.
depending on your pref, it's either on my blog: https://emmasstorycorner.wordpress.com/2023/05/05/discipline-works-a-paradox-and-a-self-fulfilling-prophecy/
or fet: https://fetlife.com/users/11630983/posts/9458875 (which is more likely to have an active comment section)
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