Gosh, I don't know. It would be hard on my family either way, but I think if I died suddenly, it would be harder for them. I don't want to suffer and I'm sure my family wouldn't want me to either, but this way we'd know and could somewhat prepare.

When my son-in-law died suddenly at 64 it was such a horrible shock to everyone, including all the people he knew and who loved him. The sanctuary was standing room only after bringing in folding chairs after the pews filled up.