Hate is a word that I don't like to hear or use. Growing up on the border, living most of my life here, being white skinned, losing out on a lot of opportunity because of just that, I just made the best of what I could do on my own with out much help. Raised our girls to get their education and leave, they did and have and it has worked wonderful for them. You would be surprised at who our friends are, who we help and who come to us for help. We are not the exception either.