Re: What to do
Posted by Andrew on 7/8/2013, 10:08 am, in reply to "What to do"
Could you do both?
When on a high urge, practice in the urinal setting.
When on a lower urge, practice in a cubicle aiming to reach a point where you can be comfortable going with the door open and making a noise.
BTW when practising at a urinal, are you choosing a large quietish toilet, so that you can vary the separation, and try out the lower urge.