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hi there, after some 50 years i've just found out i am not alone,seems the older i get the worse my symptoms become,once there was a time when i just needed to pop into a cubicle and i could pee,my imagination seems to go into overdrive when someone enters the room now and i just shut down,just back from 17 days on the continent on the motorbikes with 4 pals sharing cramped hotel rooms with another chap,could not go when he was there, had to go in the middle of the night when i could hear him snoring,up to 6 hours on the bikes stopping at local cafes for coffee,needless to say the toilets in France leave a lot to be desired,had to plan my day pee first thing before doug woke,try to get one before set off, pee at next destination when doug was in shower,some toilets had glass doors others shutters,i could 'nt believe it,last 2 nights in Amsterdam,had to come up with an excuse to go back to the hotel cause i could not pee in the city,this has been the bane of my life,i get so angry and frustrated,it stops me from going places and socialising which effects my relationships and the constant thinking ahead,will i be able to pee in this restaurant? cant go to that party, does'nt fill you with confidence,anyway i'll keep a look out on the site,thanks Rich.