If I am out in a bar and i am going to the loo a close mate even asks whether I want him to come with me, because in a busy loo he often stands there as a "division" between me and others, specially at a trough type urinal. It works a treat, and I have never had a misfire using this technique. Until I attended a workshop in January I could not use a urinal at all, and sometimes not a closed cubicle even at home.
In my experience I have not regreted telling people on a strictly "need to know" basis, and it has played a part in me turning my life around regarding my Paruresis.
Hope this is helpful to others.
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