Lucie, that was such great advice, not just for Flo as she will have lots of decisions, but for all of us. I think our circle of friends is mostly single by spouse death but all are included in our doings. Rides are offered often, but most of our gal friends are very independent and don't need that much. In our home, seems I am the business person, Jim knows but likes for me to run what little we have to take care of. I think that may be partly because his Mom was widowed at 48, didn't even write checks, money was always there for her to use, his daddy did the family business. She lived another 48 yrs and did very well adapting.