Were you smacked as a child,only a slap form Mum,never ever from dad,my husband father used a strap Mac never told me it was his sister,so not know what he had done wrong,I know he never got on with his dad,left home as soon as he could,when I go into anyone house i will remove my shoes,when my father in law asked Couldn't he afford to buy you shoes,We hadnt been married long,I said i didnt marry him shoeless