That's a eye opener there and reminded me of a few years back while reading my local Obits i ran across a guy i had had problems with and looking at his final photo i said? "HA" I beat you" and brought it up in front of a Lady of respect I knew at a meeting later on what i had said and done and she just looked at me and said? "So & so Your better then that" and I never said or did it again ether. ..... "BOO"