I am torn between utter shock, sadness, and being demoralized after reading this message by DCbearLover.
Has this message board and our civil discourse in America have come to this?
Harboring grudges for over three years is really unhealthy and most of what you wrote are unwarranted and unrelated for a haircut fetish message board.
This is not the police or a social services agency to complain about past relationships or being jilted by people who are not your type. This is a message board for those who are interested in barbershops and haircuts to share experiences, stories, pictures, and have positive connections among the wide variety of readers here (be it straight, bi, or gay). I don't see anything that you included in the lengthy pent-up diatribe was important and valid to place on a public national forum. It was mean and full of revenge.
You used this message forum to get back at a one-time chance-encounter from 2017. It is about time you move on with your life. I am sure he probably feels and has done the same, and he would be stunned at your uncalled-for actions for everyone to read.
Most of what you complain about are alleged grievances from years ago that are best left between the both of you, or better yet, forgotten and get on with your life.
After all this time and that much anger that you continue have towards him, one wonders why you are aware of his workplace situation during this health pandemic that is affecting every state and untold number of businesses.; and that you still have his email address? Obsessed much?? Why not just write to Chris directly saying you noticed his posted message to Buzzhead about them getting summertime flattops and that you wish him well, and move on. It is obvious there is likely no chance both of you will be reunited in any meaningful way, so move on. What was written by you really disparages Chris and questions his sexuality, which is only his business, not this message board and surely not you.
I wish my own email was working or I would write to Chris myself at that email you claim is his. We had a major storm which knocked out our local broadband and email service from a local company which I use in connection with work since I don't have one of those national type email services (Hotmail, GMail, or Yahoo). I am actually visiting a relative tonight catching up on family matters and my favorite websites for me to post this message.
I wonder and ask, if any of our fellow board readers can email Chris---first to inform him of today's derogatory posted commentary so he can learn of this right away, and then secondly lend him support in anyway--it would be a nice gesture.
Going through life gay (with parents not supporting you) and being marginalized is harmful and it would be nice if some readers could be welcoming by offering Chris advice and friendship. It is also additionally difficult to have and try to accept a haircut fetish which brings us here in the first place, as an outlet for our interests, and not to be publicly criticized. To put his full name and hometown in that posting today was disgraceful.
Christopher/Chris, if you are reading this, we support you, and wish you the best. Now go get that high and tight flattop that you dearly want. I am sure you will look outstanding with that style.
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