Not defensive I've been doing this almost 30yrs and have seen lots of young men lost to the streets and gangs and go to the wrong side of life its bigger than youth sports you should look at the whole picture before you try to make yourself something your not if you really cared for ower youth you would see this is a thousand percent better than the streets your a moron to think like you do these coaches you talk about are very few but there still keeping kids off the streets for awhile